MERY ARIANSYAH
1235511179 / 16
English Department /
Semester 4
Increasing of Sexual Harassment
toward Children
Nowadays, crimes can be
found every time and everywhere. We need to be careful in whatever situation,
because we do not know exactly when that crime comes to us. Abduction,
violation, terrorism, and robbery are kinds of crimes which we can find easily
in our environment. The most terrible one is sexual harassment toward children.
In Indonesia, sexual harassment toward children has been increased since 2012.
The increasing of it in 2014 is higher than others. There are so many effects
of sexual harassment toward children. The victims of sexual harassment especially
children can get psychological problems, sexual diseases, and their parents’
anxiety will be increased toward their children’s safety.
The biggest damage of
sexual harassment toward children is getting psychological problems. As
everybody knows children have unstable emotion. So that they get psychological
problem easily when sexual harassment comes down on their life. There are some
psychological problems which may happen. First, children will fell
powerlessness. Why can it be? Because they feel really different with another
children which is caused by their physical defect. Consequently they will feel
shy and have no confidence any more. The second psychological problem is sexual
pathology called Pedophilia. The
victims of sexual harassment will be agents of sexual harassment itself one day
when they are adult. It is really bad habit as their revenge to cover their
sadness which is given before. If they do it successfully, they will feel very
satisfied. The third is children can get sexual trauma. The serious trauma will
exist as long as they remember the sexual harassment which happened in their
self before. They will get a lot of problems that have relation with love and
sex when they are adult. They always think negatively about their partner due
to their serious trauma.
Getting sexual diseases
is one of serious effect of sexual harassment. Some of sexual diseases such as,
HIV/AIDS, infection, bleeding, and many more can happen toward children as
victims of sexual harassment. Children have lower antibody than adult. Therefore
they can get serious infection quickly. The cells formation of their body are
not complete yet, while the agents of sexual harassment infect them with a
million bacteria and virus. Finally, the terrible death comes with no
permission.
Their parents’ anxiety
will be increased toward their children’s safety because of sexual harassment.
All of parents are afraid of this sexual harassment. Their anxiety will be
higher because they never know and guest who can do this bad action to their
children. In addition, most of children spend their time in the outside, like
during learning at school, having a course, playing games with their friends,
etc. Parents feel so hard to control their children during having activities in
the outside. Their children meet and know some persons every day no matter who
kind of persons they are. If children feel happy with someone, they will enjoy
the friendship easily without thinking any kinds of risks. Based on this
character, their chance of being victims of sexual harassment is very big. So their
parents’ anxiety is getting higher and higher.
In conclusion,
psychological problems, sexual diseases, and the increasing of their parents’
anxiety, are effects of sexual harassment toward children. Although the effects
seem very difficult to be decreased directly, at least we all can minimize the
sexual harassment in our environment. The most important we need to know is
nothing is impossible as long as we want to try and struggle on it. Think
positively, and take action!
June 18, 2014